It Is What It Is, But Sometimes There's More

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   Uh, who the heck is Tonya D. Floyd, and who cares what she thinks about anything? Well, you do. Because what I have to say was written for or about you; you just don’t know it yet. Go ahead and skim through a few of the thoughts here and see for yourself. Watch how often you nod in agreement. Consider it a try-before-you-buy kinda deal. You’ll find that this is well worth the read, and will make a good reference book—and gifts. Let’s not forget about the copies you’ll buy for your loved ones. 
   I’m no different from you really. Yeah, I sit around thinking a lot, and I’ve written a few other books already—pretty profound stuff if I say so myself. But the thing that binds you and me is life—the good, the bad, the relatives; we all have stuff. Regardless of where you’re from, or what you do in your spare time, neither you nor I can run from good ole life, and all that comes with it. So I write books to find the people out there who don’t mind comparing notes.
   From Where I Stand, It Is What It Is—2005. But Sometimes There’s More—2006. Nothing New Under the Sun—2011. I poured all of me into those three books, and I found some pieces I didn’t even know were there too. Yet, would you believe I still had a lot to get out of my head? I would sit at my computer and compose emails about whatever was on my mind that day. It got so that I was sending one almost every day. I mean, I’ve had a lot going on in my life the last few years—and it’s not over. Not by a long-shot.
   But before long, I had something like my own editorial column going, and my small circle of readers grew into a big one, and spread out into my readers’ circles, and then I found out I was a hit. Somebody recently told me, “Only you say the things so many people are thinking, but would never have the nerve to say.” Actually, a few somebodies (just go with it) have told me that over the years, and I’m cool with that. 
   I actually started a blog last year because of this thought for the day concept. People really wanted to hear from me. I even tried quitting, but apparently I make sense on most days. I had no idea all this stuff in my head would come in handy on this level. Now I couldn’t stop if I tried. Each new day brings new challenges, new people, and so much to write about. I love it. Thank you all for allowing my thoughts and me to speak to and for you. I’m humbled.

Nothing New Under the Sun--2011: A Novel that's so real, it will make you think it's about you and yours. Don't believe me? Have you ever had a conversation with someone you just met and felt like an instant connection was made because you had so much in common? Have you ever heard a song playing that seemed to speak to your life, your situation, or your feelings at that very moment? Ever read a book that captured your attention—engaged you—and you couldn’t put it down? Well, that’s what I’m hoping to do with the series of stories contained within these pages. 
   Here you will find the stories of four seemingly different women, and some of the trials each one experiences. But woven into each story you will find lessons, points of view, perspectives, and ideas that will hopefully allow you to step into their shoes and see things a whole new way. Hopefully you will find that we are not as different as one may think, but we see and respond to trials differently, and therefore we can learn a lot from one another.
   Each story begins and ends at a pivotal moment in that woman’s life, giving you a snapshot of where she is at a particular point in her journey. Follow along and see who she is, where she’s from, and what she’s about; then see how she handles that and other trials as they arise. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself relating to her right away. There’s truly nothing new under the sun. Throughout the ages, and right down the street, someone somewhere has undergone something like what you have or will, and it is that bit of knowledge and experience he or she captures and shares that can help you through your own trials, or help you be a source of wisdom and encouragement for someone else. 
   It is my goal to bring these women to life, and use them as examples from which other women can gain insight, inspiration, courage, wisdom, ideas, and anything else that empowers and enlightens. Women are a wellspring of life and knowledge. It’s just up to us to tap into the power we have and disburse it accordingly, and responsibly.
   Please enjoy the edifying buffet I have prepared for you here, and feel free to share with me your thoughts. Thank you.

From Where I Stand, It Is What It Is (2005): It took me only a few tries to sum up what my book is really about and give it that title.  That says it all.  I find that people get caught up in ideology and what should be a certain way, or what other people should do, or what would have happened if....  But for the most part, people are what they are, and they make decisions based on what's best for them at the time--it's not for anyone to judge whether that's right or wrong; it is what it is.  Move on accordingly.  When you become an adult, you quickly realize that life is not very black and white at all; it is full of gray spots and you are the one who has to make something of it all.  
   I started writing these poems in 1997; the first one was "A Silly Song," which I did just for fun.  I thought it was pretty good for something off the cuff, so I started writing more poems about things on my mind at the time.  It occurred to me that I should use writing as therapy because at the time I wasn't willing to tell anyone some of the things I felt.  If I kept it between the paper and me, there would be no judgment passed.  I could speak without interruption, and that felt good.  But then I would listen to people talk about their situations, and I would see talk shows on different subjects, and I realized that a lot of the problems in marriages, child rearing, or women's issues in general were really familiar to me.  A friend of mine encouraged me to put my works out there.  I added some new material, and the next thing you know, I'm a published author.  It feels good to just tell the truth.

But Sometimes There's More (2006) is a refreshing vision quest through one young woman’s life, which captures the light-hearted, sexy, vibrant essence of its author. While it specifically tells the when, where, why and how its author came to be the woman she is, its application stretches across the globe to all women, and was designed to give valuable insight on some female behaviors as well. 
   You will be enlightened, amused, touched and encouraged as you become encompassed in people, places, and experiences associated with the author. Lessons learned are provided as a roadmap to help others avoid unnecessary pitfalls, discover a common thread between seemingly different people, and find joy where it was once elusive. Walk in Tonya Floyd’s shoes, see what she saw, embark on a journey through her mind; embrace her. There is definitely more here than a beautiful cover.

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