Relationships are like business transactions--or at least that's how I prefer mine. I am accustomed to researching the other party, outlining terms--together, discussing rewards and compensation, negotiating everything we can think to include, and even discussing penalties for stepping outside the lines. Rarely do I enter any partnership or collaboration haphazardly.
I did, however, become a member of such an unstructured situation somewhat recently due to circumstances beyond my control, along with "I want it" syndrome. Didn't read the fine print first. Yeah, that blew my mind too. I have been in touch, trying to negotiate something more structured, but that's probably not gonna happen. So on to the next one.
Anyway, I've been ranting this week about the sucky customer service I've been experiencing lately and it made me think about other things in that light. What I realize is though there may be a limited number of options available to me right now for what I'm seeking, research will undoubtedly turn up options I didn't know about, and perhaps I can break my services up and use multiple providers to get what I need. One thing about me is I'm loyal; I will stick with the one who...
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Women are always saying they don't need a man to validate them. Okay, I don't know what they mean by that exactly, and it's probably different for each woman, but let me play devil's advocate here briefly. Adam was on earth alone, the only one of his kind. He saw the animals paired up and eventually he got his own mate, designed just for him. They were to do some very important things with the land, and with themselves. Follow me now.
Woman was designed for man, to be a complement to man, and they were to fulfill each other's needs--the design was perfect, you know. When they sinned, God said to Eve, "your craving will be for your husband." I didn't make this up; Genesis 3:16, people. So while some of our more forward-thinking, ambitious predecessors sought to expand women's rights and changed the world, and though that's all good, know that we were made for men, and therefore feel it when they are absent from our lives. We feel it when they are present in our lives too, and don't we feel all the more powerful, sexy, desirable, and feminine when we have a man of our very own? ...
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